Fresh Air... WTF is that?

[watitsthis]

Ok so I thought I’ll speak my mind on some of the stuff I've seen recently.

NEWBIES!!! THERE ARE NO NEWBIES… If you talk to a girl when you go out to a venue you aren’t a newbie you are just damn scare and inexperience. I think words like newbies, rookies, beginner, suckers, or any derogatory term should be eliminated. These guys have inner games issues already using derogatory terms is counterproductive, so I suggest that the somewhat experienced guys stop referring to people in these manners. This is a community to help each other out, this is not a High school or College team where there are many interests involve (the Coach, the Players, he School, the Family, the MONEY, etc).

INEXPERIENCE guys in the community!!! have one flaw, they don’t GO OUT ENOUGH!!! They rather take a boot camp, read a book, watch a movie, listen to audio, talk to one girl, text with 2 girls, go on one dates THAN go to the FIELD AND GET EXPERIENCE. GET OFF YOUR ASS!!! And if you don’t bring anything to the table (Don’t open sets, blow people’s set, look creepy or awkward in a venue) bring some value to the interaction (pay for Gas, pay for food, get some hook ups, pay for parking) or do something that will want people to keep you around. If you are here to find ONE girl you don’t need to read or know much about the GAME just go out in the field you’ll meet a girl that will like you EVENTUALLY.

BOOTCAMPS!!! I believe these are so counterintuitive, after a certain number. Guys go to the boot camps with the mindset of learning and opening sets BUT to TOP IT OFF they have the experience guys PUSHING THEM and telling what to say just in case they get the jitters. Why is this paradoxical?? Because people should not need anyone to push them, THEY NEED TO PUSH THEMSELVES!!! Once the boot camp is done and they don’t have anyone pushing them, they are back to the way they were getting the jitters and needing someone to PUSH them again. Go to the FIELD and stop taking so many bootcamps.

EXPERIENCE PEOPLE!!! I don’t know what determines success in this community but I think the term PUA is overuse. I met experience guys that don’t act like they had much experience (SUCKS!!!). You see the difference between the PUAS and the inexperience peeps is simple; the only thing that keeps you going are your past experiences (EGO BOOSTER). If you didn’t have your past laid report, kiss report, field report, the pictures, the phone number, all those text messages in your phone, f**k buddies and the girls around you, guess what: you’ll be another NEWBIE!!! You experience guys probably still have as many inner game issues as the NEWBIES when you leave the community and come back from that 1 month, 2 month, 12 month sabbatical or LTR all of us will take; the good news it just takes experience peeps a lot quicker to recuperate. Social proof and DHV does not always happen in venues and in set, it occurs in the community constantly, and that’s why the community gets discouraging... Stop treating "The GAME" as a sales pitch/ profit opportunity this is to help guys improve, besides service businesses have the worst success rate (unless you are known and recognizable figure); you might as well go and gamble all of it at hard rock (POKER ANYONE? ).

FASHION!!! If you don't look genetically, I recommend you make it up through grooming and your sense of fashion. How are you going to try and approach a set of HB 10's when you have horrible fashion sense?¿?¿ The thruth is FIRST IMPRESSION COUNTS!!! If you want to avoid the 10-30 sec BLOWN OUT sets, look good (Fashion wise) when you go out.

DISCLAIMER: These are the opinion of the poster and not anyone else. Viewers discretion is advice.

Peace.